“He arrives at school escalated, he escalates at lunch in the cafeteria, he escalates during the clean up song at the end of the day.” A teacher reported to me recently.
“Awesome, you know your kiddo and you know what triggers them! Now, what can you do before these events to prevent the escalation? What do you notice the student doing right before the big escalation?”
These are the questions you need to ask to prevent the escalation and stop the escalation loop before it even begins.
You play a powerful role in decreasing challenging behavior and creating a calm learning environment. But it requires action before the escalation happens.
Have you noticed challenging behaviors occur at the same time every day? Transition to Music class. Walking to lunch. Cleaning up at the end of the day.
Patterns are not random, they are clues.
The student is telling you something with their behavior - what are they trying to communicate? They are giving you signals right before they escalate.
This is why it’s so important to know our students, know them well - know what sets them off and what behaviors appear right before the big behavior.
I’ve seen this time and time again when coaching teachers, they don’t even realize there is a trigger until they are saying it aloud in a conversation. Then they have an “aha” moment as we are talking.
Sometimes, you just need a thought partner to talk it through. Get it out of your mind and into the world to realize the whole situation.
You can ask for help. You don’t have to go through it alone.
Here are some key points to recognize the early warning signs so you can stop the loop before the escalation begins, you can decrease challenging behavior and you can increase the likelihood of a calm classroom.
When you learn to recognize the triggers and signals, behavior stops feeling unpredictable and starts feeling safe.
You shift from reacting to anticipating.
From feeling overwhelmed to feeling prepared.
That shift changes everything in your classroom.
It shifts how you think about behavior.
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